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My Mom, Reichen's hero Grandma passed away
« on: Dec 18th, 2003, 1:14pm »
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I have missed this board more than I can express.  My laptop is down.  I am in the cold Cincinnati weather.  
My Mom was diagnosed with a brain stem tumor that was malignant, 4 weeks ago.  She had a second MRI 10 days ago, and the tumor was 3 times bigger and there were 4 more on the optic nerve. She started radiation last Monday with a 70% survival rate.  She had 4 treatment and since she had no symptoms from the tumors, or the radiation,  we were all feeling she would beat this.  She drove herself to radiation Thursday, went out for lunch,  talked to all 7 of her children and went to bed at 9pm.
When several of us heard our phones ring during the night between 3 and 4AM, and when we saw her number on our caller ID, and she didn't show up for daily Mass, and was late getting to my sister's house,  she called my brother and they rushed to her house.  She was on the floor between her twin beds where she apparently fell after rinsing her nightgown, slippers, and trying to change her sheets after being sick.
She was alive, scared, had her eyes open but couldn't move.  The EMT's arrived and she squeezed a hand and tried to keep my brother in view. She never recovered consciosness. She passed away at 11pm that night,  15 minutes after I arrived from the airport.  Reichen missed her also, but gave the most beautiful Eulogy anyone could have ever heard at her funeral Mass.    She was buried with full military honors with her 7 children, their spouses, 11 grandchildren and 3 great-grandchildren and friends and other family members present.
We are all in shock, and we still can't imagine that she could possibly be gone.
I will stay with my youngest sister ( she found Mom ) until she recovers from the horrible shock.  As the eldest I am supposed to be the rock--I feel like a bowl of colorless jelly.
We need your prayers to get through this.
     Love, Ann
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« Reply #1 on: Dec 18th, 2003, 1:33pm »
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Ann thank you for letting us know.  What a shock.  You have all my condolences and prayers for you and your family.
 
Good for Reichen to give the eulogy.  It is not easy and yet it's so special to have the opportunity.  
 
It's OK to be jelly.  It's OK.  It's wonderful you are staying with your youngest sister for a little bit until more time has passed.  What a wonderful sister you are.
 
I know about being the oldest.  I am only the oldest of 3 but my mom is the oldest of 8.    It's the suddeness after the expectations were so good.  
 
I will keep you and your family in my prayers.
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« Reply #2 on: Dec 18th, 2003, 1:36pm »
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Dearest Ann.......
 
My deepest sympathies and condolences go to you and the rest of the family.   Your mother's sudden death was a horrid shock to all of you.
 
Prayers are being sent down to you and yours, and they'll come from the East, West and South as well as all around the ForumsNet world.
 
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« Reply #3 on: Dec 18th, 2003, 2:48pm »
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so sorry for your loss!
 
 
you and reichen and the rest of your family will be in my thoughts and prayers!  
 
 
We have missed you too sweetie, take all the time you need
 
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I am so sorry to hear this happened.  My thoughts are with you and your family at this time.
 
 
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Mine and Pilar's Prayers are with you in this time of sadness may God Bless her and your Family
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« Reply #6 on: Dec 18th, 2003, 3:44pm »
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I am sorry for your loss Ann.
 
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My family sends your family our heartfelt condolences at this time of your loss.  
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May God be with you and your family and comfort you.  May God welcome her into his heavenly Kingdom.
 
 
Remember the good times and keep her in your heart.  God Bless.
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« Reply #9 on: Dec 19th, 2003, 1:14am »
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Mum,
 
I can not even imagine the kind of greif you must be going through.  
 
We (forums.net) will support you in any way we can.  You and your family are in all of our hearts and prayers.  Remember to take care of yourself.    
 
My heart goes out to you.
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« Reply #10 on: Dec 19th, 2003, 7:14am »
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rcs_mum, I am very sorry to hear of your loss.  My family will keep your family in our thoughts and prayers.
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« Reply #11 on: Dec 19th, 2003, 8:41am »
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Ann,
   So sorry to hear about your loss. My family and my prayers are with you and yours.
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« Reply #12 on: Dec 19th, 2003, 9:24am »
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Mum, I'm so sorry to hear of your loss.  My prayers are with your family.  May God give you strength and comfort at this time.
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« Reply #13 on: Dec 19th, 2003, 1:12pm »
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Ann,
 
I sit here with tears in my eyes reading this. I am so sorry that this happened especially at the holidays. I will pray that your family will somehow find peace and that you will feel the love of family and friends to help you find your way through all of this.
 
 
My heart surely goes out to you and your family. I can not tell you how much this deeply effects me to read this. I am glad that she did not suffer long however.
 
Peace be with you.   :hug:
 
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« Reply #14 on: Dec 19th, 2003, 11:07pm »
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oh ann,
 
as i sit here with a stinking dial up from the uk with massive jetlag, know that i am grieivng with you and your family and that all of you are in my heart and prayers.
 
peace,
 
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