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How Would You Handle This?
« on: Aug 3rd, 2004, 10:35am »		 Quote Quote Modify Modify
If a new single woman inchurch has been hitting on your husband since December, what would you do?
 
Last Sunday was the last straw.  He even notices it and says something about it and usually men just don't see these things.  I've decided if it happens again, I'm going to quietly ask her to join me in the lobby and speak my mind about her behavior.
 
I'm thinking I've had enough this past year happening in my life, this I/we  don't need.  If it were reversed, my husband wouold have already taken care of it.  I STRIVING to remain calm.  Lips Sealed
 
What would you do?  Ignore has already been tried Roll Eyes
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« Reply #1 on: Aug 3rd, 2004, 10:59am »		 Quote Quote Modify Modify
luci, I'm surprised you've waited THIS long.   Definitely confront her about it but do it nicely.  She is going to deny it you know.
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You know it hasn't been the absolute best for me these past months, trying to get my health back.  I'm surprized at myslef also!
 
Oh, I know she will deny it, but hey, I've seen her kind before, so she didn't invent it, even thought she may think she did!
She's so obvious!  
 
You should see this woman, she's over 50, fainted (faked it) right in the church lobby in front of the door to the Sazntuary.  I had gone out to sign up for the South Texas Mission Trip we are to go on this Sept., and there she lay!  All I could think of was "OH GAWD",  this woman will try anything to get attention.
 
Trust me, this wife has had enough Angry
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« Reply #3 on: Aug 3rd, 2004, 6:48pm »		 Quote Quote Modify Modify
I have had this happen once before, and the first thing I did was to talk to my husband about it and make sure he was aware of it, and aware that *I* was aware of it and not ok with it - made sure we were on the same page.  Then I let him know I was going to chase her off, and did.  Grin
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We're definitely on the same page about this woman.  When a man says something to his wife about a woman being so obvious, well then...........she doesn't have his respect at all.
 
As I told him, I'm sure it is great for his ego, as it would be for anyone of us.  But in church!
I have spoken to a member of the church and decided to go for it and talk to our Minister as I've known him long enough to not be shy about discussing almost anything.  
I don't want to start not wanting to go to church because of her and one more time and I will hit the ceiling or her!   She only joined our church in December.  Now she is passing out programs as we go in, not a good idea to me!    
 
She should go to a neighborng town that has a church with over 20,000 members.   There are plenty of single men there.
 
It has taken several years for my husband to tell me on Saturday that we are going to church on Sunday.  No one is going to mess this up!
 
Hey, "She Ain't Woman Enough To Take My Man"
 
Thanks for your input, I need it to make me ready to be agressive.
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I am thinking someone either you or your hubby should and I agree I am suprised you waited this long! lol
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« Reply #6 on: Aug 4th, 2004, 11:57pm »		 Quote Quote Modify Modify
OK, I have my nerve revved up now.  Next time I'm ready for her, she won't be ready for what I have to say about class and manners!
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